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NYC's Premier Vocal Coaching Service Tour de Fierce Presents... Stage Fright to Stage Might: A Fierce Mini-Guide to Overcoming Performance Anxiety by Joseph Stanek
Embrace the Rush, Ditch the Fear, & Own the Spotlight!
Expert Tips from NYC’s Top Vocal Coach Joseph Stanek
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Disclaimer: This mini-guide is based on my professional experience and personal research. It’s not meant to replace the advice of a licensed mental-health professional. If your anxiety is intense or long-lasting, please consult a qualified healthcare provider.
Introduction: Okay, I'll Start with the Bad News...
You will never get rid of your stage fright. Anyone who says otherwise is wrong.
The good news? While we can’t eliminate stage fright completely from our brains, we can learn to manage it and redirect it to make our performances better than ever.
Want some more good news? You’re not alone. In fact, every single person on the planet experiences performance anxiety multiple times throughout their lives. And if someone tells you they’ve never been nervous before a performance, they are flat-out lying to you. This is how science proves it:
Imagine waking up one morning surrounded by a dozen hungry lions. (Just go with it.) Your brain immediately signals: Danger! Your body sends an immediate burst of adrenaline coursing through your veins, your heart races, and every sense is on high alert. These are our animal instincts and they are hard-wired into our genetic code. It’s our biology’s way of saying, “Do something. Now.”
Performance anxiety triggers the exact same fight-or-flight response. Our brains perceive facing an audience as something dangerous—no different than if you were face-to-face with real predators. Suddenly, you’re sweating, your stomach’s in knots, and you feel like running for the nearest exit. But guess what? You’re not in danger. No one in the audience is going to chase you down to eat you. I promise.
The best news? This instinctive surge of energy is actually a powerful performance tool. It means your body is awake, alive, and ready for action.
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The goal of this document isn’t to erase every ounce of stage fright—that’s like trying to rewire human nature. In - stead, it’s about showing you how to work with that rush of adrenaline rather than against it. By understanding what’s happening in your mind and body, you can transform nerves into a secret advantage. Because if you can learn to harness those “hungry-lion” jitters, you’ll discover a level of focus, presence, and charisma that can elevate your performances to new heights. This is the truth.
Sound impossible? It’s not—it’s actually kind of fun! And the proof is in every performer you’ve ever admired. Even the most seasoned pros have dealt with trembling hands and racing pulses. The difference is that they’ve turned that reaction into fuel rather than fear. I like to say, "Don’t force it. Fierce it." And that’s precisely what you’re going to learn here—how to transform anxiety from a party-crasher into your personal hype squad.
Recognize & Name the Fear
The first step is admitting we have fear—and then inviting it in for a cup of tea. Instead of pushing it away or pretending it doesn’t exist, call it out.
Meet “Marcia”: A Lesson in Personifying Your Stage Fright
Let me introduce you to someone special: Marcia, my stage fright. She shows up whenever I’m about to perform—probably wearing last season’s shoes and a smile that could curdle milk. But here’s the twist: I’m not scared of her. In fact, I treat her like an annoying neighbor who keeps popping by uninvited.
Step 1: Name It
Give your fear a name—a real, human name. Betsy, Bobby, Mr. Rogers, Felicity, Marcia—whatever resonates. Seriously, take a moment to think of a name and stick with it. Suddenly, it’s easier to see it as “something else” that you can escort out the door.
Step 2: Laugh & Show It the Door
When Marcia arrives, I greet her with a sarcastic smile. “Marcia, sweetie, still miserable, I see? Listen up: to - night’s not your night. I’m sliving for this performance, and you’re not invited.” I’ll often bring a small token, like a pen, to represent her. Right before I step onstage, I physically leave that pen behind—symbolically tossing the negativity away. Buh-bye, Marcia!
Step 3: Own Your Space
Once you’ve named your fear, it’s easier to separate it from you, the superstar performer. Fear doesn’t belong on stage with you. Let it know who’s boss.
The Fierce Mindset
Now that you’ve called out your fear, it’s time to rewire your brain. (It’s easier than you think.) Shift your perspective and take control of yourfears by following the three steps below:
Step 1: Visualization
Close your eyes and picture yourself absolutely slaying your performance. The weight has been lifted, you feel completely overjoyed, you totally nailed everything you could possibly nail. Hear the whoops and hollers from the audience. Feel the electric energy of the applause. I like to imagine confetti falling from the ceiling and streamers shooting from the orchestra pit while bouquets of red roses land at my feet from my adoring fans. Let that triumphant vision settle deep in your bones.
Step 2: Affirmation
Find a good mantra that resonates with you. As you know, mine is: “Don’t force it. Fierce it.” Feel free to adopt it as yours, too. Here are some other options I like to tell the people I coach:
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“Leave the mediocrity to someone else.”
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“I am READY!”
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"I’ve got this.”
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“Bring it.”
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“Time to show off.”
Whatever you decide upon, repeat your mantra whenever doubt creeps in, especially just before going on stage. The more you repeat your mantra to yourself, the more you’ll believe it. Repetition = reinforcement.
Step 3: Breathe Deeply, with Intention
Inhale slowly for four counts, exhale for eight counts. Repeat. Repeat. Repeat. This convinces your body, “Hey, we’re safe, we’ve got this.” Instant calm.
Psychological Hacks & Quick Relaxation Techniques
Use these 3 fierce life hacks to keep stage fright from taking the spotlight:
No. 1: Power Poses
Strike a pose—literally! Stand tall, hands on hips (the Wonder Woman stance), chin slightly raised. Studies suggest just two minutes of a power pose can increase feelings of confidence.
No. 2: Progressive Muscle Relaxation
Systematically tense then relax each muscle group, starting from your toes up to the tip of your head. You know where your usual tension spots are, so pay special attention to relaxing them during this step. When you let go of the tension, your body gets the hint: it’s time to chill.
No. 3: Controlled and Focused Vocal Warm-Ups
Channel that jittery energy into intentional, controlled warm-ups—lip trills, gentle humming, even a soft scale or siren using a straw. Vocalizing to yourself like this should feel like “home base” for you–something you have done a thousand times before. It’s comfortable and relaxing when you are able to focus on your breath as it supports your instrument. Transform that nervous adrenaline into a creative spark.
Turning Fear into Performance Fuel
We’ve all heard the phrase “turn lemons into lemonade”— Well, here are two new ways you can turn panic into panache:
Swap 1 Word for Another
Instead of thinking, “I’m so nervous,” swap it for “I’m so excited!” Your body’s physical symptoms are almost identical to excitement anyway—so why not label it in a more positive way?
Create Your Own Pre-Show Ritual
A 3-second pep talk in the mirror or a quick set of three deep breaths can do wonders. Consistency is key here— use the same mini ritual before every performance to train your mind to switch into “showtime” mode.
My Own Pre-Show Ritual (One of Them Over the Years...)
Literally anything can become a pre-show ritual that can help send your nerves out the door. Let me share one of my own.
When I made my Off-Broadway debut in Naked Boys Singing (yes, really!), I started a ritual with a special brand of eye drops I happened to be digging at the time (Rhoto). They have a delightful burn that wakes you right up. Just before I left my dressing room during our preview performances, I’d drop one in each eye, bow my head, feel the tingle, then snap upright and lock eyes with myself in the mirror, whispering “STAR.”
It sounds silly—but it worked wonders. By opening night, the entire cast was doing it. That tiny repetition instilled a sense of calm and excitement in all of us. Stage fright? Not a chance. We slammed that door on Marcia, locked it, and threw away the key.
Post-Performance Reflection
This one’s easy to forget, but it only takes a few seconds and is very effective. The moment you step off that stage, your adrenaline might still be high. Now’s the perfect time for a quick reflection:
Celebrate the Wins
Did you hit your high note with ease? Did you remember all your lines? Did you connect with the audience? Jot it down.
Learn from the Oops
If you tripped or missed a lyric, note it, but don’t dwell on it. Trust me, we all have our nightmare performances that we end up laughing about; mistakes are a part of what makes us human. Learn to look at these moments as you earning your stripes. And remember: tomorrow is a brand-new opportunity.
Build Confidence Over Time
Each successful reflection reduces the intensity of future stage fright. You’ll quickly realize that you can handle just about anything.
Final Thoughts
Stage fright isn’t your enemy—it’s your built-in energy booster. By naming it, reframing it, and channeling it into your performance, you’ll walk on stage with a swagger that screams “I got this!” Remember: Leave mediocrity to someone else.
Ready to crush your next performance?
Stay Fierce, Stay Sliving, and Keep Singing.
Don’t force it. Fierce it.
And if Marcia shows up, well—show her out the door.
Thank You
...for reading! My name is Joseph Stanek and I’ve spent more than 20 years studying and perfecting the science of effective performance delivery. From headlining singers at Madison Square Garden and the Roman Colosseum to performances at Carnegie Hall and events for the NFL, NBA, ABC, NBC, and all major Hollywood film studios, I’ve helped artists, athletes, and public speakers manage their nerves and strengthen their delivery as we’ve created some of history’s most unforgettable performances and productions.
Based out of New York City but traveling internationally for my work, I’m passionate about helping performers at all levels—whether you’re a rising talent or a seasoned superstar—find confidence in the spotlight.
I specialize in vocal coaching (my regular clients include Ariana Grande, Jennifer Hudson, and Kristin Chenoweth) and performance coaching of all types. I’m also a television producer, concert producer, and a creative director for all kinds of celebrities and events around the world. If you want to learn more about me or book a session with me, feel free to surf on over to my website tourdefierce.vip, where you can find the answers to all your questions.
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Disclaimer: This mini-guide is based on my professional experience and personal research. It’s not meant to replace the advice of a licensed mental-health professional. If your anxiety is intense or long-lasting, please consult a qualified healthcare provider.
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Document Title: Stage Fright to Stage Might: A Fierce Mini-Guide to Overcoming Performance Anxiety
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Author: Joseph Stanek, Tour de Fierce
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Copyright Notice: Copyright © 2025 Joseph Stanek / Tour de Fierce. All Rights Reserved.
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Description: This expert guide explores the evolutionary science behind stage fright and provides actionable techniques for performers and public speakers to transform anxiety into confidence. Created by NYC vocal coach Joseph Stanek, founder of Tour de Fierce, this PDF is packed with tips for singers, actors, and public speakers looking to master their stage presence.
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Joseph Stanek is a renowned public speaking coach, acting and vocal coach, performance strategist, and entertainment industry expert who specializes in helping performers turn stage fright into stage presence. As the founder of Tour de Fierce, he works with Broadway stars, major recording artists, and public speakers to refine their craft and own the stage so they can share their messages with newfound confidence.
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With over 20 years of experience and a client roster that includes EMMY®, GRAMMY®, and TONY® Award-winning performers and productions, Joseph’s expertise has helped artists command the spotlight for television specials and sold-out concert venues around the world—including Madison Square Garden and the historic Roman Colosseum.
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