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Mindset for Singers: Why It Beats Technique (From a NYC Vocal Coach)

Updated: Oct 24

I know there are millions of singers out there that are sick of vocal exercises and simply feel stuck; if that's you, this is your sign to focus on training your mindset for singers first. Technique matters. So does stage presence. But you can't get anywhere without mindset. A singer's mindset lets the technique show up under pressure.


In this post I’ll show you quick mental shifts I use with clients to calm the body, focus the breath, and perform with authority on stage and in the studio. You’ll leave with a pre-performance routine, a warm-up reframe, and a few “in-the-moment” resets for auditions, gigs, and recordings. If you want hands-on help, you can work with me 1:1 or learn more about who I am and how I coach—and you can always dive into more voice coaching articles after this one.


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Singing is 90% Mindset. For better performances, training mindset for singers is non-negotiable. Image courtesy of Tour de Fierce.

The Day I Learned that Great Singing is Mostly Mental


Have you ever heard of the musical Next to Normal? My mentor Mary-Mitchell Campbell was the original music director when it was just getting started at 2nd Stage Theatre, and she had me tag along to most rehearsals as her protégé / assistant music director.


This was before the show became a Broadway hit. It had buzz, yes—but no guarantee of a future. Then one afternoon, just hours before curtain, the team found out the show wasn’t transferring. Financial issues. The run was ending. That was it. Everyone involved had a couple of weeks left and then we were all jobless.


Devastated doesn’t even begin to describe how we all felt.


Despite losing her voice that week, the star of the show—Alice Ripley—showed up. And not just to support. She decided, that night, to go on. No voice, no problem.


She embodied the role on an entirely new level that night. When the notes were too high for her limited range, she made up new melodies that cut through the notes that she did have. She delivered with newfound, heart-wrenching conviction that gives me goosebumps even as I type this out.


She was brilliant.


Arena Stage producers were in the audience that night. They loved the show and offered everyone contracts to mount the show in D.C. There, they fine-tuned the flow and found their rhythm. Then they all returned to New York and headed straight to Broadway. It opened on Broadway. And Alice Ripley won the TONY® Award. The show won a Pulitzer.


That’s mindset over mechanics. So yes, I teach technique. No one teaches it better. But I don't stop there. I sharpen my singers' emotional aptitudes to prepare them for their very own Alice Ripley moment.


Singing. Is. So. Much. More. Than. Just. Technique.

Coaching Mindset for Singers—Why It Matters


Technique is any singer's rocket. But mindset is the launchpad.


Confidence Affects Tone

A tense mind creates a tense vocal tract. The more you second-guess yourself, the more you hold back physically and emotionally. Release the doubt and your voice opens up.


Performance Anxiety is Real (and Reclaimable)

You don’t banish anxiety—you name it.


My stage fright persona is Marcia. She’s rude. I show her the door before every performance. You can too.


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Visualization Changes Everything

Picture yourself slaying the stage. See the lights, hear the applause, feel the energy. Mental rehearsal builds trust in your own voice.

Mindset Shifts You Can Start Using Today


Power Statement

A fierce affirmation like “I slay these notes” or “I’m the star of this stage.” Or my personal mantra: "Don’t force it. Fierce it." Say it out loud. Let it ground you.


Micro-Wins

Celebrate the little things: a clean phrase, a smoother run, a fearless belt. Stack those wins.


Controlled Breathing

Use the 4-1-4 method: inhale for 4 counts, hold 1, exhale 4. Do this before each lesson or performance.

Why This Matters for Online Vocal Lessons


Online voice lessons aren’t just about convenience—they’re about accessing your best self from wherever you are.


As a vocal coach for beginners, pros, students, hobbyists, amateurs, influencers, content creators, and VTubers alike, I’ve seen that when mindset work is baked into vocal coaching, the results are effing incredible.


With online vocal lessons, there’s space for:

  • Safe, comfortable environments for vulnerable singing

  • Regular consistency without commute stress

  • Immediate mindset breakthroughs—whether you’re in NYC or across the globe


Final Thoughts: Your Voice Deserves a Mindset Upgrade


There’s a reason you’re searching for singing coaches, vocal teachers NYC, or voice classes NYC. You know deep down that singing is more than hitting the notes.


And you’re right. It’s mental. Emotional. Energetic.


Want to experience the shift for yourself? 👉 Book a virtual voice lesson now


Let’s slay. Together.




FAQ: Vocal Coach NYC Claims that Singing is 90% Mindset


Q: Why is mindset important in singing?

A: Your mindset directly affects how confidently and consistently you perform. Singers with a strong mindset tend to progress faster, stay more resilient, and recover more easily from mistakes.


Q: Can mindset improve your voice?

A: Yes! A strong mindset can eliminate tension, reduce self-doubt, and unlock better tone, pitch control, and breath support. It’s often the missing piece for rapid improvement.


Q: How does a vocal coach help with mindset?

A: A great vocal coach helps you reframe negative thoughts, identify confidence blockers, and guide you through the emotional challenges of performance. You’ll gain vocal AND mental strength.


Q: Is mindset more important than vocal technique?

A: In many cases, yes. Without a strong mindset, your technique won’t be fully accessible. Confidence, clarity, and mental focus allow your technique to shine through.

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